One of my pet peeves is grudgeholders. I don't have a problem with someone holding a grudge, per say, but if someone has a problem with me, it doesn't do them any good to be mad if I don't know why they are mad at me.
I recently had a friend who held a grudge for 2 months. During those 2 months, my feelings were hurt just about every day. All I kept thinking is all I have done is try to be a friend, so why was this person upset with me? After 2 months, this person holding the grudge finally came out and said what was wrong. We aired out our differences and figured out that the problem wasn't really a problem, and if we had talked about this 2 months ago, everything would have been better.
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